He rudely shoots down your ideas

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A guy can disagree with your way of seeing the world and still care. If all he does is disrespectfully disregard your perspective when communicating, he likely doesn’t think much of you. 

You don’t want to be with someone who can’t treat you nicely, especially when you are simply talking. Next!

He avoids touching you in public

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If your guy friend loves to embrace, kiss and cuddle in the privacy of your home, but won’t even hold your hand on the street, this is a major warning sign. 

Either he doesn’t want to be seen as being “with” you, or he is scared one of his other lovers (or his wife!) will see you out in public. Drop this dude if he won’t even hold your hand.

He never comes over to your house

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Men don’t like to go out of their way — especially if they are not that into you. 

A guy who likes you wants to make efforts to show you are special to him. 

Someone who won’t even drive to your house or take the subway can’t be expected to give much in the long term. 

There are other top-notch fish in the sea. Trust.

He maintains physical and emotional distance

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Does he often break eye contact, even in private? Or withhold sharing personal details about his life? On the physical and emotional levels, a guy who will not share just doesn’t want to go too deep. That can be fine for a fling, but it’s not worth making an emotional investment on your part. If you have had your fun, it’s time to move on to brighter horizons.

He takes forever to text or email you back

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In this technological age, there is nothing easier than sending someone a quick email or text. If your male companion takes hours — or even days — to respond to these simple forms of communication with even one line of acknowledgment, it’s time to kick him to the curb.

This is not only lazy — it’s also rude. He might not be sending you a text message, but he is certainly sending you a clear message of another kind. On to the next one!