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You should focus on the elements of your letter which you should plan out properly in order for you go back to your relationship. Let us check on these elements.
Substance. Normally, you would get the urge to come up with a letter right after the relationship. Ignore this urge. If you cannot, then make sure you trash the letter after you write it.
The substance of this letter will be coming from someone who is still so emotional about the break up to make real sense about the situation. This is the reason why you should not write at this period. Take time to cool your thoughts and emotions, and then reflect on the situation.
Timing. In all that we do or say, we have to consider when we should act or say at the right moment. Otherwise, the reaction we expect from the other person may never materialize. For example, if you send a letter wanting to go back to the relationship while he is still has a hangover over your breakup, he might just refuse to read your letter.
When you agreed to breakup, let it settle first before you send a letter asking him to come back to you. The guy will only get confused and worst feel that you are pathetic and decide to completely leave you forever. So, be patient and sensitive enough to know when you should send the letter to explain how you feel.
Avoid promising that the next time you go back that it would be better, or perfect. This will certainly turn the guy off when he remembers how imperfect you two were. What you can do is start by admitting how the breakup made you realize the mistakes you did and apologize sincerely, then try to solicit some response on how he feels about the entire situation.
Think about when you and your boyfriend or husband first met. You probably had a lot of admiration for him and this in turn attracted him to you like crazy! The key here is admiration. Men want to feel like they are admired and women respect their masculinity. This is a huge turn on for men and will have them attached to you like glue. You obviously had these feelings at the beginning of your relationship and at that point your man wouldn't have ever thought about cheating.
As your relationship moves on you probably lost some of that admiration or stopped expressing it. This in turn causes you man to seek it elsewhere. Most often this is the root of all cheating and affairs. It may sound juvenile but men crave this type of connection and you obviously provided it at one point.
Men are not driven to cheat by a pretty face or nice body despite what most people think. They crave an environment where they feel respected, admired, and powerful. This was probably very prominent in your relationship at the beginning and you man would do anything to keep that going. He can't, however, force you to treat him a certain way. Just as you probably desire flowers or sweet gifts from time to time, admiration is the equivalent for males. Think of this as the ultimate armor for scandalous women that would be willing to steal your man away.
This about your relationship and how it has changed. Has your man already cheated or are you just afraid that he will? Has the fun and excitement ended and turned into nagging and frustration? A lot of times men feel nagged by their girlfriend or wife after the admiration and respect begins to wear off and the relationship becomes too comfortable. Realize that as you desire certain treatment and emotion, so does your man. It takes work to stay together and build a strong relationship. Every person has needs and if they are fulfilled as they were in the beginning of your relationship then your man won't even consider cheating on you!
As a spiritual counselor, I get many calls from people who are waiting for someone to change into their ideal love partner, soul mate or twin flame. I am always asked when this person will show up and why he/she has not already appeared. Many have been confronted with a similar person time after time. The other becomes an unappealing lesson or mirror of some kind instead of the ideal mate that they had hoped for at the beginning of the relationship. I am always surprised when I find that the person waiting has finally accepted another as who they are and no longer is in that frustrating limbo called The Love Waiting Game! They either release that person to allow another to come into their lives or move ahead with the same person with their eyes open. Awake to the fact that the other person is not able to fulfill ALL their needs. Ultimately, this is an unrealistic expectation of anyone else. We must grow to fulfill our own needs. Then, the love relationship remains fun!
We forget that a committed relationship and/or marriage is just the equivalent to moving from the minors into the major leagues. We can think it is the prize we are seeking that will finally lead us to tranquility in partnership. That is rarely the case! Most often, the new set of skills required are intense. So intense, that our divorce rate, here in the western world, is growing and our children suffer our mistakes now and later.
Sure, there are crazy situations that are worth struggling through and people worth waiting for out there. I am talking here of being in denial about ourselves and our own needs then pulling someone in who wakes us up to our real priorities in life. That could be seen as a great gift instead of another romantic failure. The object here is to really get the lesson or gift that will allow us to have a peaceful, stable and loving relationship.
Love relationship between two human beings is the speediest and most intense spiritual path there is in this life. It takes a brave and courageous person to really undertake it, understand it, and persevere to find the many gifts that unfold within it. Yet, first ask yourself if YOU are the grounded, stable, loving partner for another. We can only attract what we are ourselves!!!!
Say we want a grounded love relationship. Say we want a loving, gentle, kind, thoughtful, sexy love partner who is honest and stable. Let's work on ourselves first. Let's become all that to get all that in another. This could be the true meaning of loving yourself.
To maintain the genuine love for each other are as follows: First spending quality time with your partner, in a way that your partner would feel that even if you are very busy with your work you still have time for your partner to discuss about your family and your children's future. Second is having a constant date with your partner so that the intimacy of your relationship will not get lessen. Through dating everyday, you can fill the love cup of your partner; it is good to fill the love cup of your partner everyday so that it will not get drained. And the third one is giving some materials that your partner like, just like for example flowers, chocolates and some other stuffs that your partner would feel that you love you them and you still think about her/him even if you have a busy day everyday.
It is vital to maintain your genuine love as well as the genuine love of your partner for your relationship will get stronger and firm. Also, always be there beside him/her. Couples nowadays are splitting for the reason that their partner no longer has any love towards them and when their partner needs them, they are not there beside their partner.
The fact remains that you cannot learn how to start a conversation with a girl instantaneously, particularly if you are used to be surrounded by guys in your office or college. Obviously, practicing with a lot of girls can help, but the negative responses will stress you out. The right way to do it is practicing with lots of girls or women whom you do not have any romantic interest with. They may not attractive or hot, but the aim here is making yourself at ease around the opposite sex.
Here's what you should do: scale any girl you meet from 1-10 (I'm sure you have done that on regular basis) and pick whoever you feel comfortable to speak with and make an effort to strike a conversation. Let's say you give "six" to the waitress at a cafe and don't feel nervous around her. Go ahead and try to chat with her about her work, what she does when she is not at the workplace, and so on. In time, you'll want to keep raising the "level" of the girl while still being comfortable around them.
Before long, you'll learn how to start a conversation with a girl without being anxious or scared of being rejected; you may even have talked to an "8" girl easily. Naturally, trying to start a conversation with a girl whom you attracted with will pose different challenge, yet at this point you have got accustomed to be around women and you need to preserve that feeling.
Your body language can betray you, so ensure that you do this: keep upright posture as you walk to her, keep eye contact, and make sure that she sees you coming. Do not use submissive body language and tones like you are pleading her to accept you and do not show that you are nervous. The signs of nervousness are keep evading eye contact or playing with keys, matches, or other small objects in your hands.
He rejected you and that is why you want him back. It's a difficult thing to be rejected but you can reverse the situation with a couple of tricks to make him think that HE was the one rejected! One is a phone call that you don't have time for. No begging allowed, just wanted to say 'hi' but I'm quite late for an appointment. Hoping you're ok. That is like a trip-wire to him. He's going to expect begging, pleading, etc., to get him back. Oh, by the way, no crying either during the call. That's a sure-fire turn-off for him and could possibly remind him of the last time you were together.
Something else to avoid is calling his mother, unless you have a great relationship with her and you two have previously talked about the relationship and possibly have seen 'it' coming. This is not to say that eventually you'll be able to utilize that relationship with his mother but not initially.
As well, be cautious about what friends of his you talk to. If they are HIS friends, you KNOW that they'll be making a bee-line to him after your conversation. And that is most likely to go sour in a hurry so be extremely careful of friends of his that you strike up a conversation with.
Have you been on the dating scene long enough and you want to move onto something more worthwhile? Have you attracted only losers and you'd like to find a way to get the attention of that really great guy? Do you think your tactics might need an overhaul and you need to find something new to do? Take a look at this article and give these tips a try. You're sure to see a change in your love life.
Dress the Part
Many women want to be loved for who they are inside and not how they appear. While that might be a great thought, in reality men will make a partial judgment based on how you look. They're really looking at the overall impression you give and if you're looking neglected and frumpy, it doesn't set you in a favorable light. Put a little effort into it and make sure you always look presentable at the least and flat out great as often as you can.
Boost Your Level of Confidence
When you look great, you feel great. You'll catch a glimpse of yourself in a store window and your confidence will soar even higher and this will be reflected in your smile, your stride and in the way your eyes connect with the people around you. This can be very intoxicating to the guys you meet. Your confidence should also show a complete lack of desperation, so don't suddenly fall to your knees when that cute guy comes up to talk to you.
Get out Into the World
Sitting at home pining over your love life isn't going to help you much. Go out and think foremost about the fun you'll have. When you're enjoying yourself you give off a positive vibe that guys just love. Before long he'll want to join in the fun. Without the pressure of actually becoming your boyfriend, he can have fun with you as he gets to know you. This is a great way to subtly and gently guide a guy into love.
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It is a fact: most guys are looking to date or hookup with a single woman. Less complications. This is good news for you. Why? It means that most guys are avoiding married women. Less competition for you. A single woman on a dating site might get a few hundred offers each day from different guys. A married would might only get one or two; one of which can be from you.
If this fails to convince you to seek out hot wife dating, then consider this: Married women actually want casual intimate encounters. They want what you want! Single women, on the other hand, will always have a relationship in the back of their minds. A married woman wants a discreet affair with no strings. This is perfect for you, looking for a casual encounter.
The last fact that will convince you to seek out married women is all about standards and willingness to accept. A married woman has less men from whom to choose, unlike single women who have thousands. This means a married woman must lower her standards of acceptance. You will find it is much easier to become accepted by a married woman. Not only is this because they have less men from whom to choose but it is also because they are only looking for one thing, a casual encounter; they are not looking for a good provider, or a guy who is good with children, or someone who is ambitious; they just want a nice guy.
If you are finding it a struggle to find a woman for a casual encounter, try hot wife dating. Get yourself a free membership to a big dating site. You can do everything with a free membership: search profiles, send and receive messages, add friends. You do not even need a credit card. Search for married women in your area and add them ass friends and send some messages. Pretty soon you will have more potential dates than you can handle!
